Steps to Finding Peace When you experience suffering… Pray your pain to God. This is what it means to lament. Remember that God is holy, sovereign, and a good Father. Cling to God’s promises (Psalm 32:10; Isaiah 43:1-2; Romans 8:28; Hebrews 13:5, etc.). Share your burdens with godly friends. When you struggle to forgive… Recall the mercy and grace God …